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Mary Boleyn

Mary Boleyn as played by Perdita Weeks

born c. 1499 - died July 19, 1543

Character's backstory: famous for being the mistress of two kings, Francis I and Henry VIII. Older sister of Anne Boleyn (evidence from a letter written by Mary's grandson to Elizabeth I, claiming the Ormonde title on the basis of Mary being the elder sister; Elizabeth accepted the claim). When she was still a young girl, her father secured her a position as a maid of honor to Mary Tudor in 1514 when she was to journey to France to become the wife of Louis XII. Mary remained in Paris after the wedding and stayed at court until she was recalled in 1519. There were rumours at the time that the reason Mary's family recalled her home was due to her numerous scandalous affairs with various men at the French court, including Francis I and his courtiers. Mary was wed to Sir William Carey, a minor noble, in February of 1520 at Greenwich, a match arranged by their two families and attended by Henry VIII. Soon after her marriage she began an affair with Henry which would last four to five years.

During her affair with the king she gave birth to two children, Catherine and Henry, whom her husband William Carey claimed as his own. Mary was widowed in 1528 when her husband died of illness. She later remarried a commoner, Sir WIlliam Stafford. See below *

Gentility: daughter of Sir Thomas Boleyn, Earl of Wiltshire, and Lady Elizabeth Howard, daughter of the 2nd Duke of Norfolk

Position: maid of honor to Princess Mary Tudor, Lady in Waiting to Queen Katherine of Aragon

Personality type: flirtatious, scandal seems to follow her where ever she goes. Mary was considered more conventionally beautiful than Anne but lacked her sister's style intellect, and wit. Rash and emotional.

Signature look: appearance unknown, but likely attractive and fairer than her younger sister. Said to be the fair Boleyn with light complection and golden hair, the opposite of her sister Anne. One portrait, a late copy of an early original, survives: hair colour is unknown, but she has large dark eyes.

Endearing trait(s): probably married her second husband, Stafford, (1534) out of love despite her family disowning her as a result. Both Henry VIII and Anne Boleyn were outraged at her not following protocol; Henry VIII was offended at having an obscure member of the minor gentry as his brother-in-law. The Staffords spent the remainder of their live residing in the countryside. Mary had several children by Stafford. Upon Lady Rochford's (George Boleyn's wife) death in 1542, she inherited the entirity of the Boleyn fortune.

Annoying trait(s):A certain brashness in flouting convention by having affairs & a lack of ambition.

Nicknames: "The English Mare" - Francis I, King of France described her as "una grandissima ribalda, infame sopra tutti" ("a great prostitute, infamous above all")

Mary Boleyn as portrayed by Perdita Weeks

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Family members:
Father: Sir Thomas Boleyn
Mother: Lady Elizabeth Howard (sister of Sir Thomas Howard, 3rd Duke of Norfolk)
Brother: Sir George Boleyn
Sister: Anne Boleyn
Cousin : Madge Sheldon
Cousin : Katherine Howard

Romance(s):
mistress to King Francis I and King Henry VIII
wife to Sir William Carey (1520 - 1528 his death)
wife to William Stafford (1534 - 1543 her death) - Stafford was a commoner with no rank and small income. A love match, as evidenced by the letter she wrote to Sir Thomas Cromwell (at right).

Children:
Daughter: Catherine Carey (b. 1524)
Son: Henry Carey (b. 1526)

Son: (with Stafford)
Daughter: Anne Stafford; Edward Stafford (no records confirm the existence or survival of either), although she is recorded to have appeared in court, pregnant, after being secretly married.

Friends:
Anne Boleyn
George Boleyn
Although Anne and George Boleyn were very close and reportedly had little use for their sister, Mary. (This was reported by several foreign ambassadors.)
Mark Smeaton

Enemies:

Scandals:
At some point after her marriage she began her infamous affair with King Henry VIII while she was at court, but it is not entirely clear when or how long the affair lasted. What is certain is that although temporary, Mary's affair with the King of England was a catalyst for her family's track to wealth and prominence. In 1525, her father was created Viscount Rochford, which was probably due to her influence not her sister Anne's.

It was rumored that one or both of Mary's children were fathered by the King. The belief is that Mary's affair with the king ended well before the birth of Henry Carey, therefore, some historians are doubtful that he was the King's offspring. However, some accounts do remark on the resemblence between Henry Tudor and Henry Carey. In 1528, Sir William died from sweating sickness, leaving Mary and their two children in considerable debt. At first, no one offered Mary any assistance, not even her father Thomas Boleyn. It was her sister, Anne, who would come to her rescue by securing Mary a pension of 100 pounds a year and allowing Henry Carey to attend school at a Cistercian Monastery where he was tutored by Nicholas Bourbon, who was saved from the French Inquisition by Anne Boleyn's intervention. Mary accompanied her sister Anne to Calais in 1532 when she was presented to Francis I formally as the fiance of King Henry.

After her sister's coronation, Mary again shocked her family with scandal by secretly marrying William Stafford, a commoner, in 1534. Mary's family disowned her for this and Anne refused to allow her sister to return to court. Mary did not visit her sister or brother when they were imprisoned in the Tower in 1536. It is not known if she ever saw her father or mother before their deaths. Mary, as sole heir, inherited some of the Boleyn estates in Essex and died in her early forties in 1543.

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"......when Mary took matters into her own hands by falling in love and making a runaway marriage. Her new husband was one William Stafford, another member of the royal entourage and another younger son without money or land. The family was furious.

Her father cut off her allowance and her sister banished her from court, so that Mary was obliged to appeal for help to Master Secretary Thomas Cromwell. She admitted that she might have chosen 'a greater man of birth and a higher', but never one that should have loved her so well, nor a more honest man. And she went on, 'I had rather beg my bread with him than to be the greatest queen in Christendom. And I believe verily ... he would not forsake me to be a king.'

She begged Cromwell to intercede for her with her father and mother, her uncle Norfolk and her brother. 'I dare not write to them, they are so cruel against us.' But the Staffords were not forgiven, and remained outcasts living in rustic retirement at Rochford in Essex. This turned out to be just as well, for they were thus able to escape any involvement in the witch-hunt surrounding the eventual disgrace, trial and execution of both Anne and her brother George, as well as the five other young men in their circle.

After her parents' death Mary inherited the Boleyn properties in Essex, and herself lived on until l543, long enough to watch as her young cousin Catherine Howard was exploited and ultimately sacrificed to family ambition.

Ironically it was Mary, the feckless, unregarded member of the family, who gave the Boleyns their posterity, for her children were to prosper in the reign of Anne's daughter, Elizabeth I, who always showed special favour towards her mother's kin. Catherine Carey married Sir Francis Knollys, a distinguished pillar of the Elizabethan establishment, and became one of the queen's closest friends. Henry Carey was raised to the peerage as Baron Hunsdon and followed a military career. He played a leading part in suppressing the Northern Rising of 1569, and was rewarded with a personal note of thanks from his sovereign lady, signed 'Your loving kinswoman, Elizabeth R'.

The Boleyn/Carey/Tudor connection continued on to the end of the century. Catherine's daughter Lettice was the mother of Elizabeth's favourite, Robert Devereux, Earl of Essex, and it was Mary's grandson, Robert Carey, who was with the queen at Richmond Palace in March 1603 and left a moving account of her last illness and death. It was Robert, too, who rode from Richmond to Edinburgh, accomplishing the journey in a record three days, to tell James of Scotland that he was king of England at last. " [Alison Plowden,BBC]

*Many famous historical figures claim Mary as an ancestor, including Charles Darwin, Winston Churchill, and Princess Diana.

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DEFINING EPISODES | MEMORABLE SCENES

Her liason with Henry in France. Not historically accurate: she had affairs with Francis I and his courtiers; engaged in an affair with Henry VIII after her return from France, and marriage to William Carey, a minor noble.

When she is banished from court by her sister for marrying below her station

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Sir William Carey - Mary's 1st husband	Catherine Carey, Lady Knollys Mary's daughter who was Elizabeth I's chief lady in waiting
Henry Carey, 1st Baron of Hunsdon Mary Boleyn's eldest son. He enjoyed substantial favor from Queen Elizabeth I	Mary Boleyn by Mark Satchwill DO NOT REDISTRIBUTE

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MissBrit

Mary Boleyn - did she love Henry? (page: 1 2 3 4)

Oct 23 2009, 7:34 PM EDT by juliana-angela

Thread started: Jul 8 2008, 3:10 PM EDT Watch

I didn't know much about Mary Boleyn, until I watched "The Other Boleyn Girl" last night. I felt so sorry for her as she was portrayed as someone who was in love with her husband, but her family forced her to go after Henry after falling for Anne initially failed. She then falls in love with Henry and Anne is jealous and seething when she sees Henry fall for her sister instead. Despite Anne's cruelty to her when she lures Henry away from her after Mary falls pregnant, Mary still supports Anne and "lies" for her about Anne's ex lover.

Does anyone know if any of this is true? Did Mary really love Henry? Did Henry love her? Was Anne jealous that Henry fell for her sister?

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Ciere

Prince William - a descendant of Mary Boleyn? (page: 1 2)

May 20 2009, 7:04 PM EDT by tudorcrazy

Thread started: Jul 17 2008, 10:55 PM EDT Watch

Is this real? I found a link to this while I was doing the random internet research I usually get into. It was in a thread on a Philippa Gregory readers' group site. If it's true it will be pretty amazing.

Mary Boleyn
1500-1543
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Henry Carey
Baron Hunsdon
1526-1596
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The Hon. Catherine Carey
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William Howard
Baron Howard of Effingham
1577-1615
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Elizabeth Howard
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John Mordaunt
Viscount Mordaunt
1626-1675
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Charles Mordaunt
3rd Earl of Peterborough, 1st Earl of Monmouth
1658-1735
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Lady Henrietta Mordaunt
1682-1760
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Cosmo George Gordon
3rd Duke of Gordon
1721-1752
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Alexander Gordon
4th Duke of Gordon
1743-1827
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Lady Georgiana Gordon
1781-1853
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Lady Louisa Jane Russell
1812-1905
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James Hamilton
2nd Duke of Abercorn
1838-1913
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James Albert Edward Hamilton
3rd Duke of Abercorn
1869-1953
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Lady Cynthia Hamilton
1897-1972
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Edward John Spencer
8th Earl Spencer
1924-1992
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Lady Diana Spencer
1961-1997
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Prince William of Wales
Prince of Great Britain and Northern Ireland
1982-

SO - Thomas Boleyn may get his wish - hundreds of years in the future. Someone of their line on the throne finally!

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Mary Boleyn (page: 1 2)

Apr 24 2009, 2:30 AM EDT by luvprue2

Thread started: Mar 10 2008, 1:10 AM EDT Watch

I think its about time there was a discussion on mary. How they made her out in the show was so very wrong. She was a huge piece of anne's life no matter what book you read. I was very disappointed with how she was the kings mistress for like what an episode and then they never showed her again?

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